CONTROL.....

There are some guys out there that love control and when the girlfriend or wife gets in the way they don't like it. Some guys do let off warning signs like severe jealousy, very argumentative, watchful of everything the girl does or talks too, things like that. Some have never abused girlfriends in the past and all of a sudden their jealousy streak comes out in a bad way, but on the other hand there are some that have abused in the past. Most women allow it because they are scared and have no clue what to do or where to go for fear of them getting hurt also. Some allow it because of low self esteem, you guys would be amazed what an abusive relationship will do to a girl. Been there, done that and got away from it.

This doesn't go for every guy, my hubby is one heck of a guy and doesn't like it when guys go after girls.... Some of the newer generations were not raised on how to treat a girl, most of them are raised that a female is for one thing and one thing only. There are some guys that still do believe that females are not just a pass time and actually want to get to know them for who they are. Very far and very few in between, but they are out there.

Compliments to the ones that are out there!

Yeah I don't know why they are doing these kinds of things to the people they supposedly care about and "love" but the only thing I can say is what you said, they must have major self-confidence and self-esteem issues. Maybe suffered from abuse themselves growing up, who knows? It is a sick sick world we are living in now days!