Today marks my 19th anniversy

Today marks the 19th year anniversy of my husband and I celebration. It sure doesn't seem that long ago. It's really hard to believe that this day has came .
 We have 4 wonderful horrible devil children ... LOL... ok just teasing they have their moments like most children have.
I have asked along the way to other people how long they have been married and along with way I have encountred many different answers.  The next question that came into question was what their secert was.
 1. Many of them said  communitication
2. Said trust
3. Was never go to bed angry at each other. In the morning things will still be the same so why  not go to sleep happy with  each other.
4. Never fight about things that you can't change ,
5. It always takes two to make things the way they are. 
6. Always tell each other I LOVE YOU , no matter how mad , upset, angry or disgusted you are with your partner.
So here is what I HAVE LEARNED in the 19 years, besides these  above.
Never  fight about things you can't change or things that neither one of you have control over. Say screw it, and take care of things you can change and you can control. Always leave the little things last because in most cases its easier to get them out of the way by the days end.
Another thing is to keep things interesting.  I can say that through out our 19 years of marriage we have had more ups then downs. This is one roller coaster that I have learned alot from and hope to contiune to learn,
 So here is to Roger , and I  making it 19 years of wonderful ups and downs that we call marriage.